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I know I'm Straight So what is going on with me?


I'm a 14 year old straight female. I know that I'm not bisexual, because I am only attracted to men.

But I notice a couple of things. I have a sneezing fetish, and I only get an orgasm if a woman sneezes. When men sneeze I feel gross, weird, and odd. I get extremely turned on when women sneeze, and I'll watch videos of women sneezing.

I also have Voyeurism, where I get turned on by seeing someone nude, or doing sexual activity (More info- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voyeurism ) But mostly, if I see a woman undressing I feel really good, not with men, I once again feel gross. I have OCD so I know that when people in my house sneeze or undress, I can't really stand it, so that has to do with OCD.

I don't like seeing men nude just plain because it's weird.

I like to look at women's bodies, and feel like kissing them on the cheek, or feeling their legs and stomach.

But why is it that with my fetishes, I'm only turned on by women? I am not attracted to women, as in I would never date a woman. I would consider myself Bi- Curious, as in having fantasies, but I am not actually attracted to women, it's more of me wanting to know what it's like to date one, but I don't want to, because I am not attracted to women at all, I don't find them cute or hot, the way I would with guys.

Is there anything else I might have? Is it just my preference? Being Bi-Curious? Anything else I should know about? Thanks, I really appreatcite it.
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Dont worry, i think it is just hormones raging and going crazy lol cause since u r a young teen thats when puberty starts.

my opinion but u never no, i guess u could be Bi-Curious  (+ info)

Should people who wish to stop others from buying euthanasia or assisted suicide, take responsibilty for them?


for the rest of their lives, since they have interfered and are forcing them to live, for their own voyeurism? At present they give a 'suicide is never an option' or 'you have everything to live for' type speech, but don't offer any practical help like money or wonder cures.
I was thinking specifically of financial responsibility; if someone I didn't know prevented me from dying I would expect their entire financial resources devoted to my comfort for my remaining years
I was thinking specifically of financial responsibility; if someone I didn't know prevented me from dying I would expect their entire financial resources devoted to my comfort for my remaining years
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Assisted suicide is the highest form of greedy there is,

Suicide is already legal don t be so disguisting wrong to ask a person you love and who loves you to murder you. That is all it is assisted murder. I oppose Euthanasia, I suffer a potentially fatal uncurable excruiatingly painful disease Rheumatoid Arthritis. However, I favor different methods such as allowing patients who areon verge of death to use any drug on Earth legal or illegal to help make their last days less painful, I dont bgelieve they should be targetted or punished if they choose to use or cultivate illegal drugs to help them.

I am pro life, lastOctober my first born son died he was less than 1 year old, 2 months ago I got diagnosed with my potentially fatal disease, which is as the Dr's say an evil extremely painful degenerative disease.

I believe in God and his sanctity of life, I oppose suicide and assisted suicide. If England allows Euthanasia will take my entire family an leave here I will remove my entire families finances from England and stage a boycott of EVERYTHING BRITISH. I oppose this evil murderous law. It has been used by people who are wheeldchaired bound cos they cant handle not being able to walk on their own no more, such as 23year old paralyzed rugby player last year (to me that sickening the kid wasn't even terminal just greedy), it is open for people who suffer Depression especially Bi-Polar to abuse the system and kill themselves instead of using drugs tohelp stabalize their condition. How on Earth can we make murder a legal business that generates money and revenue? How on Earth can we force Doctors to breach their charter and obligations to keep people alive at any cost? Dr's are here to cure, help and keep people out of pain and alive until God decides its our time to go. We have NO right to play God and say who lives and who dies. Disguisting.

Euthanasia was a program created by the most evil man in modern time Adolf Hitler, it was used in his Concentration Camps to kill Jews and 400,000 Disabled people. Plus God told us a man who takes his own life will never enter the Heavens. Only God decides when we die no1 or nothing else. Kill yourself = hell fire, Ask someone to assist in your death in other words ask someone to help murder you = hell fire for them both. Double standard laws are a joke the Government has no right to decide who lives and who dies.  (+ info)

Do I need to get some help?


I was doing some searching online and I came across a website that list some common characteristics of a serial killer this is what some of them said I matched with 12/14 listed.

1. Over 90 percent of serial killers are male.

2. They tend to be intelligent, with IQ's in the "bright normal" range.

3. They do poorly in school, have trouble holding down jobs, and often work as unskilled laborers.

4. They tend to come from markedly unstable families.

5. As children, they are abandoned by their fathers and raised by domineering mothers.

6. Their families often have criminal, psychiatric and alcoholic histories.

7. They hate their fathers and mothers.

8. They are commonly abused as children — psychologically, physically and sexually. Often the abuse is by a family member.

9. Many serial killers spend time in institutions as children and have records of early psychiatric problems.

10. They have high rates of suicide attempts.

11. From an early age, many are intensely interested in voyeurism, fetishism, and sadomasochistic pornography.

12. More than 60 percent of serial killers wet their beds beyond the age of 12.

13. Many serial killers are fascinated with fire starting.

14. They are involved with sadistic activity or tormenting small creatures.
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Yes, you do need to get some help, but not because you are necessarily a potential serial killer. You can have these signs and NOT be a serial killer - they are just trying to find some common denominators of serial killers, not trying to predict who may become one. So let's hope you are not going to become a serial killer.

However, to have 12 of the above 14 issues is a very serious thing that needs looked into. Some of those are major problems. Many of them not your fault of course, but still, if you've had those experiences, then you could benefit from counseling. To go through those types of things, such as abuse and so on, is very hard for anyone to deal with, and counseling is needed to help you get through such terrible things, so that you can live constructively and not be forever damaged by the past you have had.

It concerns me that you were looking for traits of a serial killer. Was this because you felt you may potentially be/become one? If so, then it is a VERY serious matter indeed, and yes, you definitely need help before you hurt somebody else and yourself in the process. If you wonder if you need help, then chances are, you do. This is not a put-down to you at all. Some people have just gone through so many bad things that they can't possibly be expected to know how to deal with it, and therefore need counseling. I hope you will get some help.  (+ info)

Is it right that people can pay to watch an epileptic have a fit?


"An epileptic actress has been criticised over plans to try and induce a fit on stage as part of a public performance."
http://www.ananova.com/News/story/sm_3569747.html
"Rita Marcalo has stopped taking medication ahead of next month's production of Involuntary Dances at Bradford Playhouse, reports the Daily Telegraph."
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/theatre/theatre-news/6606339/Epileptic-actress-attempts-to-induce-fit-on-stage.html
The over-18 audience will be provided with sleeping bags and breakfast - and will be woken by a siren the moment she suffers a seizure so they can film it on their mobile phones.
Ms Marcalo, who has suffered epilepsy for 20 years, will use strobe lighting, fasting and raising her body temperature to try and bring about a seizure.
She said: "One of the reasons I am doing this is because epilepsy is an invisible disability.
"If you Google or YouTube 'epileptic seizures' you come up with all kinds of mobile phone footage which has been filmed without the patients' consent.
"Part of me doing this is to address the voyeurism. I am saying, I am choosing to let you do this."
Philip Lee, chief executive of Epilepsy Action said many of the charity's members would consider the performance "inappropriate".
"I am concerned about the potential danger of a patient stopping their medication to induce a seizure. Seizures can bring with them the risk of injury from jerking or falling or in the worst cases, death."
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What an odd world we live in.  (+ info)

Signs of a Serial Killer during Childhood...?


1. The majority are single, white males.
2. They are often very intelligent, with IQs in the "bright normal" range.
3. Despite their high IQs, they do poorly in school, have trouble holding down jobs, and often work menial jobs.
4. They tend to come from unstable families.
5. As children, they are typically abandoned by their fathers and raised by domineering mothers.
6. Their families often have criminal, psychiatric and alcoholic histories.
7. They often are mistrustful of their parents.
8. As children, they are commonly abused—psychologically, physically and sexually—by a family member.
9. Many spend time in institutions as children and have records of early psychiatric problems.
10. They have high rates of suicide attempts.
11. From an early age, many are intensely interested in voyeurism, fetishism, and sadomasochistic pornography.
12. More than 60 percent wet their beds beyond the age of 12.
13. Many are fascinated with fire starting.
14. They are involved in sadistic activity or tormenting small creatures.

Wait wait wait...So what happens when people show many of these during their life but don't end up being serial killers? Is there still some psychiatric problem in their head and would they need to get help...like for the suicidal thoughts and such?
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Someone on Answers is suppose to know the answer to this? I don't even think 99.9% of cops would know an answer to this...or should I say THEORY....because it would be a theory.

Oh, damn....I fit all of these, too....all except being male and torturing small animals.  (+ info)

What is your view on sexual dysfunction or paraphilia?


I have a psychology assignment in which I need to get the opinion of people regarding sexual dysfunction or paraphilias.

Examples of sexual dysfunction: hypoactive sexual desire disorder, sexual aversion disorder, male erectile disorder, female sexual arousal disorder, inhibited orgasm, female orgasmic disorder, male orgasmic disorder, sexual pain disorder, dyspareunia, vaginismus.

Examples of paraphilias: frotteurism, fetishism, voyeurism, exhibitionism, transvestic fetishism sexual sadism, sexual masochism, pedophilia, incest.

Any opinions, thoughts, experiences, would be appreciated. Please include your age and gender.
Thanks!
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Sexual dysfunction is mostly organic, IMO.
Parahilia also includes a desire to rape, an unusual sexual attraction to an object.
We cant control what turns us on.
If you happen to be one of those who are interested in something that will bring harm to another (especially pedophilia) then the person has to learn how to not act on those urges.  (+ info)

what are these the symptom for?


1. Does this person keep secrets about his/her sexual or romantic activities from those important to him/her? Does this person lead a double life?
2. Is this person driven to by needs to have sex in places or situations or with people he/she would not normally choose?
3. Does this person frequently look for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media?
4. Do romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with this person’s relationships or prevent him/her from facing problems?
5. Does this person frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Does he/she frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?
6. Does this person feel shame about his/her body or sexuality, such that he/she avoids touching his/her body or engaging in sexual relationships? Does this person fear that he/she has no sexual feelings, that he/she is asexual?
7. Does each new relationship this person engages in continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted him/her to leave the last relationship?
8. Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring this person the same levels of excitement and relief?
9. Has this person ever been arrested or is he/she in danger of being arrested because of his/her practices of voyeurism, exhibitionism, prostitution, sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.?
10. Does this person’s pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with his/her spiritual beliefs or development?
11. Does this person’s sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?
12. Has this person’s sexual or romantic behavior ever left him/her feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?
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Why do some women like watching men masturbate?


for those that like to watch, what is it they like most? female voyeurism is really interesting
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Beats me, I guess the same reason men like watching women do it.  (+ info)

I know I'm Straight So what is going on with me?


I'm a 14 year old straight female. I know that I'm not bisexual, because I am only attracted to men.

But I notice a couple of things. I have a sneezing fetish, and I only get an orgasm if a woman sneezes. When men sneeze I feel gross, weird, and odd. I get extremely turned on when women sneeze, and I'll watch videos of women sneezing.

I also have Voyeurism, where I get turned on by seeing someone nude, or doing sexual activity (More info- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voyeurism ) But mostly, if I see a woman undressing I feel really good, not with men, I once again feel gross. I have OCD so I know that when people in my house sneeze or undress, I can't really stand it, so that has to do with OCD.

I don't like seeing men nude just plain because it's weird.

I like to look at women's bodies, and feel like kissing them on the cheek, or feeling their legs and stomach.

But why is it that with my fetishes, I'm only turned on by women? I am not attracted to women, as in I would never date a woman. I would consider myself Bi- Curious, as in having fantasies, but I am not actually attracted to women, it's more of me wanting to know what it's like to date one, but I don't want to, because I am not attracted to women at all, I don't find them cute or hot, the way I would with guys.

Is there anything else I might have? Is it just my preference? Being Bi-Curious? Anything else I should know about? Thanks, I really appreatcite it.
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You say you are not attracted to women, but all the things you say about them sounds like you are - liking them undress, wanting to touch them etc.

Because we are brought up in a society where there are more hetro couples (man and women rather than same sex), as a society we find it strange to imagine having a relationship with someone of the same sex, so that may be why you don't imagine yourself having a relationship with women.

Women's bodies are beautiful and so it is not completely strange to find that attractive. There is no reason to label it bi-curious or anything I don't think, you are just appreciating something gorgeous.

I think you should stay open to the fact you do find girls attractive and if something happens with that, then cool. If not, also cool.

Hope that helps, good luck x  (+ info)

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